 Last week, a young Israeli died protecting his girl friend
from a knife-wielding Palestinian. The police spokesman said he absorbed
the attacker's blows with his body, ultimately collapsing on top of his
girlfriend who was unscathed physically. http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/946633/posts
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- The young man made the supreme sacrifice. His was the
supreme act of love.
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- Men instinctively protect their own. But feminists don't
belong to any man and make a point of being independent. If you were married
to one, would you sacrifice your life for her? If society put your children
under her jurisdiction, would you die for them?
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- The answers have broader implications. Would you support
her if she were incapacitated? Would you do unpleasant work day-after-day
to support her children? If not, would there be any point in dying for
your country? Feminism clearly sabotages the social contract, which is
heterosexual by nature.
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- By "feminism" I am not talking about women
receiving equal opportunity (in fact, they often receive preferential treatment.)
I am talking about a bogus gender ideology that the financial elite is
using to destabilize and depopulate society. This ideology denies the natural
differences between men and women, encouraging women to behave like men
and vice versa.
- Here I will elaborate on my ideas about heterosexuality.
I do not wish to impose a one-size-fit-all model. I am presenting another
paradigm in opposition to official feminist dogma. Let the truth be the
ultimate arbitrator. Everyone must discover it for him or herself.
- POSSESSION
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- If you want to get a man's attention, give him power.
A man will not sacrifice himself for woman or family unless they belong
to him, i.e. are part of him.
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- Feminism has made the idea of a man "possessing"
a woman distinctly unfashionable but this is exactly what both sexes actually
want. It mirrors the sex act.
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- As I have said, the heterosexual contract involves the
exchange of female power for male love. If she has chosen wisely, a woman
will receive more love as she completely surrenders herself. Self-sacrifice
is how women show love. Men feel this and it inspires their love. Female
love takes the form of faith, patience, acceptance, adaptability, support
and much more.
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- For a man, I suspect power (and the responsibility and
trust it implies) is the most satisfying aspect of his relationship.
- On the other hand, the more power a woman demands, the
less male love she will receive. Feminists are consigning many women to
lives of bitterness and solitude.
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- Feminists will say I am portraying male tyranny but I
am not. A loving man nurtures his wife and wants her to flourish. He tries
to please her. He consults her. She is in charge of certain domains, which
aren't necessarily traditional. She has her own personality, work and views.
For example, my wife doesn't agree with many of my views.
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- Nevertheless my wife adjusts to me. I feel free. She
has made all other women redundant and freed me to pursue my work. Miraculously,
she is happy too.
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- PUTTING WOMEN ON A PEDESTAL
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- To surrender power for love is feminine. When men try
to do it, women lose respect.
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- Women unconsciously seek to be overwhelmed by a man.
So when a man puts her on a pedestal (because he wants sex or love) he
is defeating himself.
- Women are naturally hypergamous: they seek men with greater
power or status. A man will succeed if he finds a woman who looks up to
him. He can keep her respect by providing responsible firm leadership.
He should cut his losses if she proves difficult. If you want to get a
woman's attention, show her the door.
- A man must have a dream that is independent of a woman
but involves her. According to psychiatrist Helene Deutsch, ("The
Psychology of Women," 1948) women are masochistic-narcissistic. They
want to be put to use as wives and mothers, and loved for their sacrifice.
They want to be needed.
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- A woman's most important decision is her choice of a
man. Her life will be based on his dream for better or for worse. He must
have a vision of life, and she had better like it or not marry him.
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- It is tragic to see young women squandering their innocence
on men who only want sex. Beauty is based on love and trust. If young women
understood this, they would preserve their innocence.
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- CONCLUSION
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- The financial elite is creating the new world police
state using a bogus war on terror and a bogus gender ideology. Men and
women can partly thwart this assault by having families based on healthy
and natural heterosexual principles.
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- Male-female love is the closest most of us come to knowing
God. (That is why we are so obsessed with it.) Love involves different
self-sacrifice for females and males. When a woman gives herself to the
right man, they are able to move mountains together.
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- Henry Makow Ph.D. is the author of "A Long Way to
go for a Date." His articles on feminism and the new world order appear
on his web site www.savethemales.ca He enjoys receiving your comments at
henry@savethemales.ca
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- Comment
- From Alex
7-22-3
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- Makow says of his wife: "Miraculously, she is happy
too." Yes, it is miraculous. That man is not only flatly incorrect
on most points, he is also deeply disturbed.
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- Alex
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- Comment
From Sheryl Jackson
moonfyre1@earthlink.net
I read every word that Mr. Makow has to write about feminism.
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- He wants to blame everyone on the planet for the problems
that men have created for themselves.
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- Who came up with the look of the New Millennium Womyn?
The TV thin, wraith that I consider to be Modern Auschwitz Womyn? Who
came up with the unrealistic ideal of what a womyn should be? It was not
feminists, as we tell ALL womyn they are beautiful and that whatever size
they are is okay. However, since most womyn today are trying to juggle
jobs, home activities and being a wife, we really don't have much time
to look like the trophy who shuts up and does what she is told. Told what
to do and surrendering herself to man? Yeh, right, after paying all of
the bills, buying the groceries, being a chauffeur to the family, taking
care of the local grandparents, and volunteering for the FHA or FFA and
staying up late to help with homework, housecleaning or just plain taking
care of ill family members.
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- We go to work where we have mean bosses, mean co-workers,
and irritating rules that are haphazardly enforced according to the whim
or mood of the usually White Male boss who may be hungover, angry at his
wife or girlfriend or just plain likes making others miserable.
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- We make less for doing more. We do not get too many
raises or promotions because we work so hard they could probably not replace
us, or if they could it would take to long to train someone to do what
we know to do after ten years in the same job.
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- Corporations found out that wymyn would work faster,
harder and cleaner than most of the men that were hired. To keep up the
Myth of Masculine Superiority, men become the bosses because of their lack
of job skills to be productive workers. Then in the seventies the Korporations
found out that minorities also worked harder, faster and cleaner. Someone
then decided that there should be x amount of workers that were minorities.
Of course, wymyn were a minority. But that was not really addressed by
the White Male Managers. They came up with minority choices for promotions
because most of the minorities were college educated. The choice for promotion
became "Billy Bob, is my best friend, but he sure is stupid. That
Philippino man is college educated and he will make me look smart."
Next, uh, gee, Billy Bob, I really wanted to promote you, but I have to
fill a quota of minorities. Sorry.
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- Feminists just want jobs, a lack of harassment from managers
and co-workers. Go in do the work, go home and do more work. That is
the life of most feminists in this country. We are not trying to usurp
anyone's "authority", we just want to be free to go home from
work, without feeling our job is in jeopardy daily. To be able to raise
our children whose father walked out to find himself and start a new family
in another state. So the womyn is left holding the bag and the kids.
No child support there. Just the Big Daily Grind, never enough money,
or food or clothes for the kids and nothing for Mom for years at a time.
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- We just want to be who we are without feeling we need
to have a lame man around to make us feel good about ourselves. Trying
to meet an unrealistic body image keeps many womyn from having men around,
because most men want a sexual fantasy to assure themselves of their virility.
And who wants to look emaciated or like a sharecroppers wife, like the
Rich and UNDESERVING? These are people who find joy in denying themselves
the comfort of food and the roundness of a womyn's true body. They have
personal trainers, private chefs, and can go to spas for weeks at a time.
Most American wymyn would just like to have a one hour bubble bath at
home for relaxation.
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- The Krap that Mr. Makow writes is as unrealistic for
men to read and try to adhere to as it is for wymyn to achieve. Most men
do not have the finances of the good Mr. Makow and his boardgame. His
advice is not practical, practicable, or realistic for most of the men
and wymyn of this country. Men who read it, already are feeling bad about
their lives and their lack of love.
- Wymyn who read it are already wondering where have all
the "good men" gone?
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- So, if you really want to have a womyn in your life and
you want to know how to treat them, join the PromiseKeepers, or get the
tapes by Reverend Smalley, who can teach men how to be in control without
brutality to make a point. How to nurture and feed a relationship with
a real live human female. How to have a good relationship and to feel
that they and their mates are really okay.
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