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Makow - In Praise of
Traditional Women
The Male and Female Principle

By Henry Makow PhD
1-25-4



I am grateful I am married to a traditional woman.
 
I do not sacrifice any freedom for love. I am in charge. My wife is comfortable with that. I am twice as free as when I was single.
My wife is passive by nature. Passivity is the natural female principle. The marriage of active (male) and passive (female) is the basis of heterosexuality.
 
But it is heresy to say so.
 
Women are actually ashamed to want to be homemakers. How did this happen? How did motherhood go from being honored to being stigmatized? This change in attitude is the trajectory of Illuminist subversion of America. Obviously the Illuminists prefer women to be corporate widgets rather than wives and mothers. (I'll elaborate below.)
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A woman needs a man to love her. The notion that she should be "independent" and career oriented is absurd. As if fighting traffic, or pounding a mail route is better than staying home and caring for her loved ones. As if obeying a boss is superior to obeying the man she chose to love and marry.
 
There is no greater blessing than a woman whose grace, beauty and love warms a home like summer sunlight. There is no greater gift than the precious love she gives husband and children.
 
 
THE PASSIVE (FEMALE) PRINCIPLE
 
The passive principle is the earth principle. The earth receives sunshine, water and seed and produces life. A woman receives a man's love and seed and after a period of gestation, she performs the miracle of giving birth to a human being.
 
Carrying and nurturing the young is the essence of female psychology. The denial of this is a measure of the Illuminists' desire to override nature and control all human life.
 
Being a wife and mother is what makes a woman tick. She needs to be intensely needed and loved by her husband and children.
 
These roles are passive by nature. They involve a great deal of adaptation. But they also require a different sort of activity. A wife responds to her husband's needs and a mother responds to her child's.
 
A woman is not going to be loved permanently just for her appearance, which is transitory, or for her accomplishments. Love is not like that. We love the people who sacrifice themselves for us. That proves they love us.
Men also sacrifice by working to support their families and providing leadership. Happiness can only be found in love, not self-seeking. Love is self-sacrifice. Human beings were designed to look after each other.
 
In contrast, Illuminists see "freedom" as rejecting God and living for yourself. This is NOT the "truth that will make you free."
 
The model I am describing used to be second nature. It has become esoteric knowledge. It is not for everyone. I offer it to those looking for an alternative to feminist dysfunction. You will find your own balance.
 
Marriage is under constant assault. This formula has worked for centuries and still works today.
 
 
THE ACTIVE (MALE) PRINCIPLE
 
Women want to look up to their husbands. They tend to marry men who are older and more successful. Why? They want their husband to be like their father was (or should have been), capable, reliable, protective and nurturing.
 
More than anything, they are seeking emotional and physical security. They feel most secure when they feel possessed by a strong, loving man.
 
A man should prepare himself for this role. He should have a clear vision of what he wants to do with his life. If he is lost, he might ask God how he can serve Him.
 
A man's work should be his first priority and source of self-confidence. In contrast a woman was not designed to get primary meaning from career. For her, career is secondary to being loved and needed.
 
Despite what feminists say, a man should never show weakness. The essence of masculinity is power. If he is weak, he loses a woman's respect. If he lacks confidence, he should gain it by setting goals and achieving them.
 
A man should never succumb to emotional blackmail. If a woman is withholding love or sulking, he should give her time to get over it.
 
A man should know what role he wants his wife to play. A man usually chooses on the basis of sexual attraction. What else does he want? I appreciate my wife's reasonableness, intelligence, competence, and sense of humor.
 
Most women were meant to be wives and mothers. A man should think about becoming fathers and the responsibility this entails. He is not only providing for his offspring, but also teaching them how to be human beings.
 
A man will not care about something that doesn't belong to him. He should find a woman who is prepared to surrender power in exchange for love. Marriage is about union, two people becoming one. For women, surrender of power is the essence of love. If a woman can't trust a man with her whole life, she doesn't love him and shouldn't marry him.
 
Marriage is about possession and being possessed, which both most men and women actually crave. A successful union is the only thing that satisfies the spiritual hunger underlying the sex drive, and prevents wander lust.
The heterosexual contract is this. The husband has the power and he does his best within reason to make his wife happy. A man cannot love a woman if he doesn't have the power to grant her wishes.
 
But a man must keep his end of the contract, or the marriage is off. He must be loyal, and show every day how much he appreciates that she is his wife.
 
CUTTING THROUGH THE FOG: THE STALINIZATION OF LOVE
 
The vast majority of people find their identity and values in family. Destroy the family and the state is in control.
Incredible as it sounds, the Illuminists are building a world police state. The international bankers finagled the right to create money out of nothing and collect interest on it. They need a police state to protect this racket and make sure no country defaults. They own the mass media, politicians, and dominate big business. http://www.savethemales.ca/260602.html
 
Feminism is the cover for a sophisticated illuminist propaganda program. We have been brainwashed. http://www.savethemales.ca/180302.html
 
Nobody has a problem with treating women as equal to men. Feminism treats women as though they were the same. It portrays heterosexuality as pathology and degrades and discriminates against men. Women are often favoured for jobs so they won't have children and men can't support families.
Society is being sabotaged. Alas, this is what the "war on terror" is really about, enslaving the world, not protecting it. The Illuminist bankers created Communism to control the common man. Communists started second-wave feminism. Read "Betty Friedan: Mommy was a Commie" http://www.savethemales.ca/000185.html and "American Communism and the Making of Women's Liberation" http://www.savethemales.ca/000180.html
 
Bella Dodd, a former leader of the American Communist Party revealed: "The bourgeois family as a social unit was to be made obsolete." The aim was to "create a new type of human being that would conform to the world they confidently expected to control." http://www.savethemales.ca/160303.html
The bankers use Communism is to overthrow the Christian foundations of civilization and put themselves in charge. This is the true meaning of revolution. http://www.savethemales.ca/000275.html
 
The Rockefeller Foundation funds feminism. I searched this name and "Women's Studies" in Google and got 21,800 entries. They have funded population control and eugenics for decades, here and in Nazi Germany.
With women usurping the male role, we are becoming a homosexual society. There is a difference between accepting homosexuals as equals, which I do, and wishing society as a whole to become homosexual.
 
Sound extreme? Consider this.
 
Homosexuality is the inability to form a permanent bond with a member of the opposite sex. It is commonly characterized by sexual promiscuity and explicitness. Sex becomes a surrogate for love. Doesn't this describe society today? See "Playboy and the (Homo) Sexual Revolution" http://www.savethemales.ca/091101.html
 
The Illuminists aren't afraid of gays, single mothers or children. They are afraid of proud men with guns who have families to protect. This is behind the degradation of men.
 
A current ad for Swanson TV Dinners goes like this. Working mom asked for a big bowl she can eat on the run. Swanson responded. Kids wanted something for after school. Swanson responded. "Dad wanted to wear mom's frilly under things!" Picture father with a goofy smile. "We didn't know how to respond."
Let Swanson know what you think of this commercial. Media_Inquiries@pinnaclefoodscorp.com
 
"First You Get the Women, Then You've Got the Children, So Follow the
Men" -Adolph Hitler
 
 
CONCLUSION
 
We have fight the New World Order by having strong male led families.
 
After many marital mishaps, I now have a frictionless marriage. My wife and I complement each other. She doesn't compete, criticize, complain or try to control. She tells me if something is wrong. I try to make her happy. She's part of me.
 
Because of her passive nature, I don't feel like I must constantly live up to her expectations. Rather she allows me to propose. When she doesn't agree, we compromise. Usually, she assents. Her acquiescence empowers and completes me.
 
I love her. She has committed the unpardonable crime. She's good to a man.
 
Henry Makow, Ph.D. is the inventor of the board game Scruples and the author of "A Long Way to go for a Date." His past articles on Feminism and the New World Order can be found on his web site www.savethemales.ca He enjoys receiving comments at henry@savethemales.ca
 
 
Comment
From Sheryl Jackson
1-26-4
 
Have you ever heard the term MALE CHAUVINIST PIG?
 
This is to characterize and identify the men who are terrified of wymyn who can be themselves and still have worth to a man.
 
There are no White Knights hanging out in America. We have to take what we can find. It is often hard to separate the wheat from the chaff.............
 
If a womyn wants a man who is traditional and good then she must consider the men from Europe and the Latin Countries. Men who believe that we are all innately good, not just the wymyn who are "compliant and obedient".
 
Nowadays when wymyn give up their personal power, they usually give it to a male that is ignorant, mean, insecure and hateful. The average White Male in this country doesn't even know how to dress and order more than a McBurger. Uneducated, brutish, arrogant and uncivilized.
 
Instead of trying to give men an "impossible dream" to find a "traditional womyn", why not teach them to act like grownups, to make decisions that are good for the all, not just the one. Most men do not take out the trash because it needs to go out, they take it out to shut her up.
 
Teach them to do the things that need to be done, not just sitting in their chair after work sucking on a beer, yelling at the kids and kicking the dog. while screaming at her to stop what she is doing and bring him another beer and change the channel on the Tube.
 
Tell them that playtime is over, no more beer guzzling with their friends when the kids need shoes and clothes. No more funding their vehicles for toys when the wife needs to get her glasses changed. No more calling "Mommy" long distance just to whine and snivel about how hard life is, while trying to get money from Mom.
 
Get an education, go to night school. Be a man with a mission, not just live from paycheck to paycheck. Don't try to tell her how to spend her money that she earns to help support the family.
 
Do the right thing because it is the RIGHT thing to do.. Stand tall and proud and think of your family first. Stop the narcissistic male from marrying in the first place.
 
There are so many things you could teach men to NOT DO, most of them will not have the freedom financially that you do. They will be broke or mostly broke most of their lives. They are the "uSELESS EATERS" that the NWO hates so much. Teach them to lock and load to protect themselves and their homes, communities, churches. We have real trouble coming this year, like we have never seen on this soil.
 
Stop being a whiny snivelly little potentate that has no idea of what the REAL WORLD is all about.
 
Teach them to have SCRUPLES.............. Not impossible dreams that will make no one happy. There is a whole world out here that you in your arrogance and money have no idea of. The rest of us live here.
 
So answer my question...............Why don't you Save the Males with truth, integrity, strength and honor. Not whining and snivelling because you are a VICTIM OF FUTURESHOCK.
 
You need to read PORTNOY'S COMPLAINT, and Alvin Toffler's FUTURESHOCK. Also try educating yourself with wymyn's publications. Since you view us as the "enemy within", you should familiarize yourself with what you are up against. Our Herstory goes back as far as men's History. We just don't keep rewriting it to accomodate the times. The only thing l865 did was free black men, it did nothing for wymyn and children.
 
And tell the men to go to church if they want to meet more traditional wymyn. But even the churches of today have no time for men who do not allow wymyn to be themselves and loved for that quality. Male bastions that they are, the churches allows that wymyn have to help earn the bacon, so the men have to learn how to clean and cook it. How to scrub a toilet, how to vacuum and change dirty diapers not just the wet ones.
 
You are so off the mark and out of touch that you could not possibly be living here in America.
 
Sheryl Jackson
 
 
Comment
Alton Raines
1-26-04
 
The Bible disagrees with you, Makow. God Himself disagrees with you. Let's look at his Holy Word regarding a good and righteous woman in His eyes!

Makow's concept --- "The notion that she should be "independent" and career oriented is absurd." Then God is absurd to you, Makow. You don't know Him, yet, nor his ways.

God's perfect truth --- He describes a CAREER woman, an entrepreneur, a business woman, a real estate tycoon as well as a home maker! This doesn't sound like a PASSIVE FEMALE, Makow!!!
 
Proverbs 31:10-28
 
 An excellent wife, who can find?
          For her worth is far above jewels.
11   
       The heart of her husband trusts in her,
          And he will have no lack of gain.
12   
       She does him good and not evil
          All the days of her life.
13   
       She looks for wool and flax
          And works with her hands in delight.
14   
       She is like merchant ships;
          She brings her food from afar.
15   
       She rises also while it is still night
          And gives food to her household
          And portions to her maidens.
16   
       She considers a field and buys it;
          From her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17   
       She girds herself with strength
          And makes her arms strong.
18   
       She senses that her gain is good;
          Her lamp does not go out at night.
19   
       She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
          And her hands grasp the spindle.
20   
       She extends her hand to the poor,
          And she stretches out her hands to the needy.
21   
       She is not afraid of the snow for her household,
          For all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22   
       She makes coverings for herself;
          Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23   
       Her husband is known in the gates,
          When he sits among the elders of the land.
24   
       She makes linen garments and sells them,
          And supplies belts to the tradesmen.
25   
       Strength and dignity are her clothing,
          And she smiles at the future.
26   
       She opens her mouth in wisdom,
          And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
27   
       She looks well to the ways of her household,
          And does not eat the bread of idleness.
28   
       Her children rise up and bless her;
          Her husband also, and he praises her
 
This is a woman who, if her husband died, would be capable of taking care of herself and her whole household without the need for a man. She will already have the home and business well in hand. Can the same be said of the "traditional american wife" of the 40s and 50s or today's ultra-right mindset? Not hardly! Makow is talking about wives so subserviant and so cut-off from dealing with the real day to day realities of finances and business (contrary to God's truth!) that when her husband dies or leaves her, she's in big trouble, short of insurance.
 
 
Comment
From Kiffmann et.al
1-27-4
 
Anger manifests in those who speak against a race, group or gender. Makow obviously has unhealed wounds that continue to torment him. I have been an avid reader of Rense.com for 7 years, and have watched as Makow continues to view his personal biases and discriminatory remarks against women. Whether it is because he was betrayed by a women, is physically disadvantaged in a private area of his body, or he is struggling with some deep sexual conflict within himself that he is ignoring.........we do not know, and its none of our business.
 
But, I see not much difference between what this man is trying to do, and what the evil rulers of this country are doing.........to both ends would be peril.
 
Please know, Mr. Makow, that you deserve to be loved for who you are regardless of your loss, disadvantage or sexual issues. May you find peace within your anger and hatred towards women Mr. Makow. And know, too, that every person who heals, has the power to heal, too, the planet.

 

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