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Makow - The Male Fallout
From Feminism
Don't Give Up On American Women
By Henry Makow, PhD
2-8-4



Martha Kirkland is a "happy but poor" 30-something NYC artist who laments that she is dateless despite being "bright, thin, attractive, funny" and traditional.
 
In an email, she writes that she and many women friends "all possess certain idealism about the very distinct differences between men and women and applaud them."
 
"None of us wants to either lead or compete in ANY relationship, most specifically, an intimate partnership. We are, at a relatively young age dinosaurs."
 
Often the first question she is asked on a date is how much does she earn. The second is, does she "have a trust fund?"
 
"I find it so demoralizing that I lose interest in these men right away...I understand the financial imperative of the NYC area.... What I do not understand is how grace, charm and feminine essences no longer seemingly have value. The last thing my men friends want is ANY woman to be dependent upon them, especially emotionally and secondarily financially."
 
Feminism lets men "off the hook." We no longer have to take responsibility for families. Instead we can do as we please. In my case, that meant search for meaning and identity.
 
Ironically, I learned that these are rooted in the masculine role that feminism allowed me to forego. That's the hidden agenda. Feminism unravels heterosexuality by blurring inherent sexual differences.
 
As a result, many men are turning off American women, marriage and children. The latest version of Hugh Hefner's playboy is the "metro sexual." He is a straight gay, fastidious about his appearance and possessions, interested in sex but not in emotional commitments.
 
Martha continues:
 
"I attempt to persuade [these men] that the wildly successful feminist does not become the Dove Girl at home. That they are asking the impossible, a totally womanly creature that is utterly self-sustaining emotionally, spiritually and financially. I attempt to illustrate how this creature in fact cannot exist. Or rather co-exist, in the same female body, mind, spirit."
 
Martha has captured the essence of femininity. To be feminine is to be dependent on a man. Men and women can't have it both ways: feminine women are not independent.
 
NO MARRIAGE.COM
 
Martha directed me to Jon Hertzog's web site www.nomarriage.com as an example of what she and her traditional friends are up against.
 
Hertzog says marriage to an American woman is a trap. Sixty per cent of US marriages end in divorce and men who don't divorce "are stuck in sexless marriages with nagging and bitching wives, but they choose not to divorce because they are afraid of being wiped out financially."
 
Hertzog, a 32-year-old never-married New Yorker, believes American women have "several fundamental problems that will not go away and will only get worse."
 
These include inherent anti-male bias and preoccupation with "fairness" drilled into them by education and media; selfishness, ridiculously high expectations, sense of superiority and entitlement; use of sex as a weapon and reward; and general mental instability. "
 
Hertzog advises men to visit Asia, Eastern Europe or Latin America to discover "how ridiculously overpriced and selfish American woman are." He says men should never marry unless they want children, which cost $400,000 minimum to raise and are a bad investment. American men can get sex without marriage and should drop a woman the minute she starts hinting about commitment.
 
 
DON'T WRITE OFF AMERICAN WOMEN
 
Hertzog's reaction is natural. However we need to look at the big picture. Writing off American women only furthers the elite agenda. The best response is to establish strong marriages with those women who can still be salvaged.
 
American women deserve our compassion and help. They are victims of feminist brainwashing and are suffering the consequences. As Hertzog observes, most are dysfunctional.
 
Go to Blockbuster and rent Henry James' "The Bostonians" starring Christopher Reeves. The movie demonstrates how a very strong and very patient man can help a feminist become feminine again. Now that's real love!
 
As Martha's email suggests, there are some American women who have not been contaminated and are desperate for men to take charge.
 
Another reader wrote: " I thought your ideas about heterosexuality were a little strange, [so] I polled a number of women of all ages...It seems you are correct. Women want a man to make the decisions, they want a man to take care of them, and they hate the F---ing notion pressed upon them about gender sameness. Frankly I think most of them are pissed. They do not like the unmanly men they have had to deal with. You may actually see a change in the near future."
 
Traditional women want men to take charge. They are instrumental by nature. They need to be used as wives and mothers. A man can recognize these women by making a request. Will she do what he asks? Of course, longer term, this requires earning her respect and trust (i.e. love.)
 
NO LOVE.NO SEX.COM
 
I lived alone for many years and am convinced that solitude is not natural. People who are hungry constantly think about food. Similarly, singles are preoccupied with companionship and sex.
 
Casual relationships by definition are insecure. They not only are frustrating but consume too much time and energy. There is no context for love (and people) to grow. Perpetual courtship is arrested development.
 
A traditional marriage satisfies a man's need for companionship, love and sex. On a deeper level, it validates and affirms both sexes. A traditional marriage is based on the exchange of female power for male love. Men want power. Women want love. (See "How Heterosexuality Works") http://www.savethemales.ca/archives-subject.html
 
A traditional woman never uses sex to manipulate her husband. When sex isn't an issue, people can focus on more important things. Sexual liberation is not having to think about sex.
 
As for children, parenthood is the highest stage of personal development. This is when we live for others and take pleasure in them. Both men and women were designed to love. People who live for themselves generally derive little pleasure from it.
 
 
WHAT IS FEMINISM?
 
We are not taught history for a good reason. Feminism today is Communism. http://www.savethemales.ca/000180.html Communism was never a Russian-based revolt of the working class. It was always a mechanism to control the common man and establish world dictatorship. http://www.savethemales.ca/160303.html Leon Trotsky played chess with Baron Rothschild at Café Central in Vienna before going on to lead the Bolshevik Revolution. (Joseph Nedava, Trotsky and the Jews, 1972, p.36) Like Trotsky, most politicians are elite agents.
 
The Tavistock Institute in London directs the elite's psychological warfare and social engineering. They cooked up second-wave feminism to destabilize society.
 
According to Byron Weeks MD:
 
"All Tavistock and American foundation techniques have a single goalto break down the psychological strength of the individual and render him helpless to oppose the dictators of the World Order. Any technique which helps to break down the family unit, and the family inculcated principles of religion, honour, patriotism and sexual behavior, is used by the Tavistock as weapons of crowd control."
 
In a Feb. 1 op-ed piece in the Washington Post, Deputy Secretary of Defence Paul Wolfowitz wrote that the "United States is giving special emphasis to helping Iraqi women achieve greater equality." They have earmarked $100 million for this.
 
In an email to me, Culture Wars Editor E. Michael Jones commented: "Wolfowitz talks like a Communist writing for Pravda in the '30s, but he makes perfectly clear in his piece that feminism is a program appropriate for conquered nations... to destroy their culture, reduce their birthrate and keep them in a state of subjugation."
 
We also live in territory occupied by the New World Order. (See: "Gloria Steinem: How the CIA Used Feminism to Destabilize Society" http://www.savethemales.ca/180302.html)
 
 
SUBVERSION OF HUMAN CONSCIOUSNESS
 
I don't enjoy being the bearer of bad tidings, but things have gone terribly wrong. Satanic forces have hijacked this planet. Of course, they are not going to tell you about it.
 
The super-rich have more in common with each other than with people like you and me who are "squatters" in their view. United in secret societies, they have infiltrated and subverted our political, economic, cultural and religious institutions. They are waging a secret war on humanity and are responsible for the political and economic upheavals of the past 200 years including the slaughter of millions.
 
The ultimate goal is to organize a weakened and reduced world population in an Orwellian police state. The attack on the World Trade Centre, the "War on Terror" and "Patriot Act" is really about this.
 
So is feminism. The correct male response to feminist subversion is to uphold rather than eschew the traditional vision of masculinity, marriage and family.
 
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Henry Makow Ph.D is the inventor of Scruples and the author of "A Long Way to go for a Date." His past essays on feminism and the new world order are stored at www.savethemales.ca He enjoys receiving comments at henry at savethemales.ca
 
 
 
 
Comment
From Sheryl Jackson
2-8-4
 
Sir you are one of the funniest men on the planet. I was LOL reading your latest subject matter........
 
I know you probably did not mean it to be funny, but I thought it showed great humor on your part and that is a new aspect of you.
 
Congratulations on a great satire.
 
Sheryl Jackson
 
 
 
Comment
From Dale Rothschild
2-9-4
 
Every time rense.com publishes one of Makow's commentaries on marital relations, like clockwork, the remarks condemning him as some form of antiquated sexist roll in. Yet what he says is basically true.
 
I simply don't see why so many women interpret the concept of male dominance in marriages as the equivalent of advocating "shut up and cook my dinner, bitch." It is not. I for one would no more dream of treating a woman that way than any woman would dream of treating another person that way. Some men may in deed be pigs, but I believe that for a real man, when it comes to decisions of importance to him, mere obedience isn't the appeal of an acquiescent female partner. The appeal is in seeing that her *faith* in his choice under such circumstances transcends her *desire* for her own; that she places a greater value on him than upon the decision itself.
 
Men aren't interested in having power over women. What they need is to know that the power over matters critical to them is truly theirs if and when they insist on having it. If a husband sees that his wife honestly cares for him enough to make such sacrifices in power, he will make countless times more sacrificial concessions of other powers to her out of love and admiration. Which basically means that women in marriages of the kind idealized by Makow wind up with more quantitative authority than do women in sham "50/50" marriages. Men naturally want to "outsacrifice" women; the simple caveat is that their urge to do so is fueled by a woman's willingness to sacrifice upon the particular items that happen to be of importance to the men. Pigs worship absolute power. Men worship the givers of it, and then give back many times more out of humility, admiration, gratitude, and love.
 
Quite sadly, too many women are unable to perceive this age-old law of human nature. Thanks to endless indoctrination, the idea of masculine dominance brings to mind images of barefoot, pregnant women slaving over stoves for uncouth, domineering Archie Bunker husbands. What they fail to realize is that nobody forces them to marry Archie Bunker. In place of that realization is the engineered need to guard against one. Which is what has whittled male-female relationships into mere contests from which the only satisfactory outcomes are absolute draws and ties; where power must be dolled out to each side quark by quark under the eagle eyes of bean counters, and then maintained in that state indefinitely and without fluctuation. Where no imbalances -- even those generating fivefold returns on investment -- are permitted, since the very state of imbalance itself, regardless of its greater purpose and reward, is now synonymous with Edith Bunker. Which is the big lie.
 
 
 
Comment
From Starfleet
2-9-4
 
Regarding Martha Kirkland's plight...
 
Shalom,
I cannot help but be truthful about her present situation. In the past I too have heard many of my friends and some relatives saying the same thing as going back to their countries of origin to find a wife. Most of my friends who knew of your website are already married happily with several kids per couple, and all of their wives are non-american women.
 
They tried honestly looking for a decent american women but they all hit a blank wall, often times they don't know or have any idea on how to seperate the good american women from the bad american women. It is because of their situation in the past that they have given up looking locally and started looking overseas (they told me they're not getting any younger and wants to get married and start raising families while they still can) resulting in many good marriages.
 
If only this information was available many years ago then it could have given Martha Kirkland a chance, and for some women who are still salvageable. Why not tell Martha Kirkland to set up a website like "American Women For Traditional American Women" websites, that sort of thing? Maybe it can get some things started and to fight back against the anti-family new world order elite that you are also fighting against and exposing their nefarious agendas and policies to the general public.
 
As for me, I am married to a Russian wife with 4 children being raised elsewhere but never in this country, or else they'll end up like our fellow americans who are practically brainwashed and indoctrinated in the NWO brainwashing propagandas in our so called schools, media, and cultural environment. I'm Jewish and my wife is Orthodox Catholic, two faiths are better than one!


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