SIGHTINGS



Oral Sex Becomes The Norm
Among US Teens
By Damian Whitworth
In Washington
The (London) Times.
7-9-99
 
 
 
It is known as the "anything but intercourse" approach to sex. There are fears that oral sex is becoming so commonplace among young American teenagers that it is regarded as standard behaviour.
 
In one recent incident, the head teacher of a school in a Washington suburb warned parents that a dozen girls of 13 and 14 had been having oral sex with two or three male pupils. When one girl was confronted by her parents, she shrugged and said: "What's the big deal? President Clinton did it."
 
During the Lewinsky scandal there was a national debate about how much children should know about sex and how the explicit acts described in the Starr report should be explained to the curious. The phrase "oral sex" became widely used in the media, rather than a euphemism.
 
Sexual health experts are alarmed. "I've been teaching in schools for 30 years. I am receiving an increasing number of inquiries about incidents of oral sex among young adolescents, at parties and occasionally at school. Kids are not just asking about oral sex anymore; some are doing it," said Deborah Roffman, a consultant working in the Washington area.
 
The links between Mr Clinton's behaviour and the trends have yet to be proved and experts believe that fears of pregnancy and Aids are other factors in popularising oral sex among teenagers.
 
"It's now the expected minimum behaviour. The kids say if you are not going to have sex, at least do this," said Michael Schaffer, a health education supervisor.





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